A friend of mine sent me this lovely write-up yesterday and I was just so compelled to share. A lot of my friends are new mothers so all I seem to talk about these days are babies, I don’t have kids yet but I feel I can understand what they go through a little. Reading this made me smile last night and I’m sure it will appeal to new and old mums… Enjoy 🙂

This was written by Teju, if you would like to read more from her please click here


It must be a dream, the faint cry is definitely not your reality

Struggling through sleep, shutting out that noise…

The guilt in your chest if you lay there one more second

You blink your eyes and the sound gets audible, your child

No one ever has the perfect rule to being a mother

If God blessed you with a child, he sees you through each phase……

Half awake, with a headache, the TV on, bumping into clothes on the floor

You stretch out and carry your little one, cuddling him to sleep

Then your hands are wet, where is the water you touched????

Then your chest feels wet too, the adorable one is all wet, !!!DIAPER CHANGE

You grab the wipes, diaper, butt paste, and change the little one

That sweet sound of their cry… you have to change the little onesie

Then the little fingers grab at your breast, its feeding time……..

Tired, barely enough energy left in you, you feed your child

As he latches on taking all he can take, while you pray not to doze off,

He takes his fill and you cuddle him again as you rub his back for a burp

Finally the burp, slowly drifting back to sleep, zzzzzzzz

Thank you Jesus you say as you slowly creep back to sleep

Then the alarm goes off 6am? What! I just closed my eyes

But no darling that was 2 hours ago, you have been sleeping since 4am

Gently creeping out of the bed, so you can have some quiet……

The sweet melodious cry and you pick him up for another feed….

After his fill, the burp, he lays comfortably in your arms, sleeping

You smile through the tiredness, the headaches, the issues you think you have

And smile at the gift of life God has blessed you with, the humbling experiencing

Being responsible for another life, watching each milestone and getting through it!!!

The nights you stayed up as he was born, the nights you barely slept cuz he was ill

The mornings you had to come in late to work for his doc’s appointments

The days you had to call off work, because of a cold/congestion he couldn’t shake off

The days you realized you hadn’t eaten all day, the days you were to burnt out to cook

The times you find a pacifier in your handbag, your car keys in the laundry basket

Your cell phone under the bed or in between a heap of clothes, or in the fridge

The days you fantasized about shopping for yourself and smile knowing who are u kidding

Every shopping is now all about him, Mama can always mix & match and if she can’t tough luck

Its all about you Kiddo. J

And no matter how tired, frustrated, scared, unsure we mothers get atimes….

Always remember God knew you could handle it!!!


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